There is nothing wrong with introducing sex toys into your relationship, toys are meant to improve your pleasure. They can help you figure out what feels good and add an element of playfulness to your sex life. Good sex toys don’t have to be some elaborate bondage kit that takes hours to set up, in fact there are a handful of items that aren’t that freaky that can make up your sex toy starter kit.
Everybody can benefit from a sensual massage and as far as toys go massage oil is pretty tame, you won’t even blush buying it. You can get massage oils or candles with oil that tingles or generates heat. You and your partner can have a lot of fun with some high quality massage oils. They come in a variety of scents and they make your skin feel wonderful.
Personal lubricants aren’t just for anal sex, in fact they can be used to enhance masturbation. Lube can be great for couple and it should be part of any toy kit, it can help when you play around with vibrators or dildo. Remember to buy a good quality lubricant the cheap kind can irritate your skin and cause vaginal infections in women.
Basic Bondage Toys
You don’t have to be into BDSM to appreciate a little bondage you can start with something as simple as a blindfold. Covering your eyes heightens the other senses and can make the experience more sensual. After that you can tryout some handcuffs or wrist restraints. Wrist restraints restrict your movement allowing you to just lay back and enjoy the pleasure that your partner gives you. You can use silk, fabric or leather for restraints. It can be great foreplay, here is an intro to help you get started.
A cock ring is not just for the guys women can benefit from its use too. A cock ring is worn around the base of the penis and it restricts the blood flow to delay orgasm, so ladies your man can last a whole lot longer. You can also get cock rings that vibrate and both of you can enjoy them, this is a must-have toy for any collection.
Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes from egg vibrators to mini bullets. Vibrators are perfect for masturbation or fun with your partner. They are easy to use, they don’t cost a fortune and are often the first toy a woman buys.
These are the basics of any toy kit and they are a good way to start with introducing your partner to toys in the bedroom.